My favorite clothes

Jun. 4th, 2025 07:52 pm
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No reason, just felt like writing about this.

Outerwear: Maroon LL Bean barn coat with nice flannel lining; bought on eBay years ago

Top layer: Chunky mustard-colored cardigan with nice pockets; bought on Taobao in like 2019-2020

Shirt: Dark green, pink, and purple flannel shirt with deep/weird pockets; also bought on Taobao around the same time. Very soft.

T-shirt: Turquoise Gremlins t-shirt with a funny picture of Gizmo on it. Bought at Urban Outfitters, maybe sometime around 2012-2015? Also very soft.

Pants: I'm kind of struggling with pants these days! I'm in a kind of slim fit chino era and not loving it. Also I have pretty short legs so I either have to roll my pants up or get them tailored. But I have a pair of Levis jeans I got at a thrift store that are super worn-in and soft and perfect for lazy weekend walks/errand-running, so I guess maybe they're my favorites.

Shoes: Brown Ahinsa vegan "barefoot" boots. I actually put pretty thick insoles in them because the "barefoot" thing was kind of killing my feet, but I love how these shoes look and feel otherwise.

Pictures from the coast

Jun. 5th, 2025 06:07 pm
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In April 2015, photographer Quintin Lake set off from the steps of St Paul's Cathedral to walk round the coast of the British mainland. Over the next five years, he walked for 454 days; then it took him the best part of five years to sort the photographs - and now, of course, there is a book.

I have spent far too long exploring the many the photographs on Quintin Lake's website, and look forward to spending more.

There's a taster in a BBC 'Set Out' feature. What moment from the walk did the BBC choose to spotlight, leading off the article with it? ExpandGuess! )

Robert Macfarlane may have a point

Jun. 4th, 2025 05:01 pm
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One of the pleasures of quizzing is reaching into the bran tub of your memory and coming out with something that might be a piece of random word-association, but turns out to be the right answer. But sometimes you get spectacular results from something that takes no effort at all. This doesn't seem fair, but that's how it goes.

Last week at the pub quiz, the beer round -

- the beer round is a free-standing round: the marks don't contribute to your overall total, but there is a prize of drinks tokens, provided by the management. Its five questions are given at one time, which gives the Quizmaster a chace to breathe, count the takings, whatever. The questions can be verbal, but are more often pictures, and occasionally music. Scores are often very low, and there is usually a tie-breaker -

- and last week the challenge was to identify five flowers from Cicely Mary Barker's Flower Fairies of the Summer. I went straight through it, writing in the names: honeysuckle, poppy, foxglove, harebell, pimpernel. And I thought the Quizmaster had miscalculated here, and there would be a massive tie-breaker for all the teams scoring five out of five. Admittedly, of all the Flower Fairies books, summer is the one I had as a child, but these surely aren't difficult flowers to identify. The scarlet pimpernel might cause some problems, but ...

Which just shows how much I know. There were three teams (out of 20 - it was a busy week) who scored four, but we were alone is scoring full marks. Which was gratifying, if unexpected. What's more, talking to the Quizmaster afterwards I learned that we were the only team who had identified the harebell: he wasn't sure himself how it differed from the bluebell. It's blue, it's bell-shaped... I didn't tell him that it's also called the Scots bluebell, just that it's a completely different flower: bluebell; harebell. You're welcome.

Overly Complicated Gorge Trip: Day 1

Jun. 4th, 2025 09:19 am
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I took the Empire Builder Amtrak line in and out of the gorge. It's a long haul ling, goes all the way to Chicago, so big delays were a strong possibility. I could handle a 12 or 20 hour delay coming back. One going out would be more of a problem, but I did plan as if it would be delayed. But, then it was delayed way more than I'd planned for.

The gorge from the train is stunning, but also the windows were too dirty to even try to get really solid shots. I went more for 'train aesthetic' shots. I will get one or two stunning shots of the gorge someday, but that day hasn't happened yet.





The the Coast Starlight is considered the gold standard of scenic Amtrak trips and people are like 'what? why?' when I say I prefer this line is something I will never understand.

The reason why the delay was a problem is that when I arrived I'd need to get across a bridge you cannot cross on foot. Not only is it illegal, but it's old, narrow, the platform is mostly metal grating and there is a curve meaning a truck at speed will not see a pedestrian ahead:



I needed to have a pre-scheduled cab ride to get across and even though I gave myself lots of wiggle room, I was sitting in the middle of nowhere through my whole appointment window. The cab company says on their website that you can't cancel or reschedule, but for things like this they do track delays and move things around if they can. Despite getting in very late, a little blue car pulled up for me as soon as I arrived. I was so relieved.

The first place I stayed was very mid-century. The directions to my room was 'take a left, then a right, go through the breezeway, when the floor splits go up, then down the hall, then up again....' There were a lot of architectural elements I've only seen in midcentury hotels.



I enjoyed the place a lot.

Wednesday reading

Jun. 4th, 2025 04:55 pm
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Finished since the last reading post
Family History, which was OK, but what made it hard for me to really feel engaged with it was the feeling that the fun and exciting parts of Evelyn and Miles's relationship were all happening off-screen. And I didn't feel really interested in her as a character—too clingy in her relationship and without other interests in her life.

Currently reading
Still reading Heaven on Earth.

Reading next
Not entirely sure but I'll need to pick up something new. With the new books I've bought recently, I certainly have a few options.

Something to distract you

Jun. 4th, 2025 02:59 pm
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I think now I must have read all the published work of the estimable Ms Tesh. In reverse order, as she published these two novel(la)s first, and once more demonstrating her bandwidth, being different yet again from both Some Desperate Glory and The Incandescent. (Not solely because in this duology, the two main characters are male, though there are very memorable female supporting characters.) What it reminded me of was fanfiction to some earlier canon, though I could not say which canon, in the way it focused on the central m/m romance. Which isn't to say said romance - which is thoroughly charming - is all it has going for itself, by far not. The books do a wonderful job with its vaguely 19th century AU England which has Wild Men in the woods, dryads, some (not many) fairies, folklore-studying researchers and female vampire hunters. In all her books, Tesh proves she can create beings that feel guinely different, not like humans in costumes, be they demons or aliens or fae, and the while the heart of the duology is in the romance between stoic and brawny Wild Man Tobias Finch and geeky and cheerful gentleman scholar Henry Silver, it's by far not the only interesting relationship going on. There's also Henry's mother, Mrs. Silver the enterprising non-nonsense slayer hunter, with the way she and Tobias come to relate to each other being a welcome surprise, in the first novel Tobias' creepy ex of centuries past and in the second Maud Linderhurst, Expandwho is something spoilery ).

One can nitpick (for example, it's not clear to me what the difference between what Bramble the Dyrad is by the end of the duology and what the fairy servant is, to put it as unspoilery as possible), but nothing that takes away from this thoroughly enjoyable duology of stories. And given the daily news horror, they were very welcome distractions indeed.

Speaking of entertaining distractions: Sirens on Netflix is a five episodes miniseries based on a play, both written by Molly Brown Metzler,), which strikes me as unusual (plays usually ending up as movies), though some googling after watching the series which brought me to reviews of the originial play (titled Elemeno Pea), I found the review descriptions of the play made it clear there were enough differences for the play now to feel like a first draft. The miniseries stars Meghann Fahy, Milly Alcock and Julianne Moore, and a lot of gorgeous costumes. (Also Kevin Bacon as Julianne Moore's husband.) At first I thought it would be another entry in the "eat the rich" genre, but no, not really. The premise: Our heroine and central character is Devon (Fahy), who is overwhelmed with work, an alcoholic father in the early stages of dementia, and her own past alcoholism (she's barely six months sober), and when after an SOS all she gets from younger sister Simone is an basket full of fruits, she impulsviely goes to the island for the superrich where Simone now works as PA for Michaela (Moore) to have it out with her sister. However, once she's there her anger is soon distracted by the fact Michaela/Kiki (as Simone is allowed to call her) comes across like a cult leader to her, and Simone's relationship with her boss has zero boundaries. The general narrative tone of the entire miniseries is black comedy, though as the Michaela and the audience discover both Simone and Devon have horroundous backstory trauma in their childhood and youth, said backstory trauma isn't played for laughs. The three main performances are terrific, with Julianne Moore having a ball coming across as intensely charismatic and creepy without technically doing anything wrong (so you get both why Devon is weirded out and why Simone seems to worship her), while Milly Alcock, whom I had previously only seen as young Rhaenyra in House of Dragon, also excells both as Simone in Devoted Lieutenant mode and with what's underneath showing up more and more. Meghann Fahy I hadn't seen in anything previously but she's wonderful here, no matter whether chewing someone out or trying to hold it together while things around her get ever more bizarre. Of the supporting cast, the most standout is Felix Solis as Jose, the house manager and general factotum. The fact that the staff hates Simone (who hands down Michaela's orders and is therefore loathed as the taskmaster) is a running gag through the series and gets an ironic pay off at the end, though again, this is not another entry in the "eat the rich" genre. Most of all it strikes me as a comedy of manners, and of course the setting - the island which in the play is Martha's Vineyard but in the miniseries has a fictional name - allows for some great landscaping in addition to everyone dressed up gorgeously. All in all, not something that will change your life, but immensely entertaining to watch, and everyone's fates at the end feel narratively earned.

More preparation

Jun. 3rd, 2025 10:13 pm
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Got up around 11:00 and had breakfast and coffee. Showered, washed my hair, and dressed.

Then I did various things in preparation for my trip. I took out the garbage, and walked around the block. I took out the recycling, and walked around the block. I cleaned the cat pan, and took out the dirty litter and walked around the block.

I waited for the purse I ordered to show up, as it was to be delivered today.

At 3:30 I checked in for my flight online, and printed out my boarding pass. I also emailed it to my computer and phone, for extra security. It was the first time I used the printer since setting Oldest Brother's ashes and pictures there.

RK had a job interview today, but was done by 2:30ish. He went home, and then came and got me at 5:00.

WE went to California Pizza Kitchen and I got us dinner, that's his thank you for taking care of my cat and turtle while I'm gone. It was delicious, I had the Wild Mushroom pizza with the white truffle oil. Yum.

I gave him my keys, and [personal profile] mashfanficchick's too, and kept the one I had copied for myself so I can lock up tomorrow when I leave.

When I got home my purse had been delivered, and it was almost time for my Al-anon meeting. I used the short time before to put the things from my purse that I want to bring in my computer bag. And then I had the meeting. It was very small, just me and M and S.

After the meeting I Teamed the FWiB. We talked for a little over an hour. After we were done, I took my Pathfinder book, my dice, and one of my Al-anon books and the new purse and fit them all in the duffle bag.

Then I fed the pets, and started here.

Oh, the turtle tank light was on when I got up this morning. So I assume I did in fact get the timer set up properly.

Gratitude List:

1. The FWiB.

2. RK.

3. Everything fit in my duffle bag.

4. Turtle tank light timer works.

5. Got checked in OK.

6. My new purse is just what I wanted for now.

Paranormal Investigation News

Jun. 3rd, 2025 07:27 pm
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Paranormal Detour is going to the Winchester Mansion!

Two reasons why this is a big deal:
* They've never had someone livestream there (at least not legally). They didn't think it was possible, but Jordan went up and basically did a tech rehearsal to test their set up and it worked for almost the entire space
* The management is very picky about who is allowed to do content there these days. If you are aware of the state of paranormal investigation shows wont come as a shock. It's basically taken Jordan 3 years to get the connections to get someone to vouch for them so they could get the real booking number.

I went to the Winchester Mansion when I was about twelve. I wish I still had those pictures. If anyone (besides me) is interested in a paranormal livestream from there it will be June 6th, on https://www.twitch.tv/detune probably starting around 7 PST and running 6 hours or more. Since it's a livestream, it sort of starts once the tech is online and they chat, and slowly get things rolling.

today's minor medical drama

Jun. 3rd, 2025 07:21 pm
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The gentle rain falling for most of last night and today in Minneapolis did not make local air conditions better, as you'd expect from raindrops carrying particulate matter from the air to the ground. Instead, the cold front took all of that Canadian wildfire smoke from throughout the air column and brought it down to the surface. Ugh.

Click to read the longer story of today's minor medical drama...

As soon as I woke this morning, I knew something was off. I had only an occasional cough, but something about my breathing was "wrong". It was half an hour later before I tried vocalizing, and my voice sounded like I had been coughing for hours, but I hadn't. I looked at social media and saw that air quality was a hazard today. (Like this post on Reddit. Strong language used.) I wondered if I was developing asthma? I know all about allergies, but I know nothing about asthma. I could inhale air just fine, but my body was telling me that my breathing was wrong somehow. I called for another doctor appointment today and let my supervisor know that I'd be out.

At the doctor's office, I was a terrible interview subject. I couldn't explain what was the problem. I still can't tell you. The best I can articulate now is that I can breathe, and I'm not gasping or wheezing, but my body is telling me it's somehow not enough. It's just somehow wrong. *unhelpful shrug* My oxygen saturation at the time was 95%, so the doctor sent me on my merry way, thinking it had something to do with my high blood pressure and sleep apnea, and they double-checked to confirm I had my upcoming appointment with the sleep specialist. Maybe I was mouth breathing during my sleep and dried out my vocal cords earlier? No idea. I'm pretty much fine now, although my eyes and lungs are still telling me that something's wrong. At least my voice recovered fully and quickly.

I took the micro bus to the grocery/pharmacy to pick up my new blood pressure medication, a higher potency combination than what I had before. A fire truck went by, and the bus driver commented that they had passed emergency vehicles almost every 30 minutes on their shift today, far more than usual. A minute later, an ambulance turned ahead of us into the parking lot for my grocery/pharmacy. There's definitely something going on out there.

People had been sharing photos on social media for a few days, capturing the beige skies from the Canadian wildfire smoke. That was fine. I was fine. Until today. News stories like this one were already talking about how bad the air quality is here. After I returned to work for the afternoon, I found this page with hourly measurements. Click the thumbnail to see the whole webpage screenshot.

That timeline matches exactly my own experience today. Perfectly fine last night. Wake up at 7am feeling bad and worried. Already feeling better by the 10am meeting with the doctor. Holding steady since then, with most of the crud coughed out of my lungs in that first hour after waking up.

I turned on the fan for the house central heating, so that filter will catch some of the pollution. I've turned on the corsi-rosenthal box in my bedroom occasionally to do an even better job while I'm at my personal computer. I'll keep wearing my mask any time I need to go outdoors.

The short version (original meme source on Reddit, and photo source on MSN via StarTribune):

*gigglesnort*

Apparently Minneapolis has the 2nd worst air quality rating on Earth today.

Edit Wednesday: I added the photograph of downtown Minneapolis half-hidden in the pollution, for better context.

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I just had my hand dipped in paraffin for a therapeutic procedure and it was so cool. After four immersions in the bracingly hot, clear, slightly soft liquid which reminded me of candle-making in elementary school, it formed a dully livid, slowly malleable coating in which I could see instantly the possibilities of practical effects, although what I actually said as I carefully brought my mannequin hand over to the table where it would be wrapped in plastic and insulated with a towel was, "It's fascinating. I must be quite flammable." The heat lingered much longer in the paraffin than I had expected from the quick-hardening dots and puddles of candlewax and cooled to room temperature without brittling. It had to be rubbed through to be removed. Tragically it did not peel off like a glove into an inverted ghost hand, but it could actually be worked off my wrist and fingers in a coherent thick wrinkle and took none of the small hairs off the back of my hand with it, like its own Vaseline layer. "Your skin is going to be so moisturized," the therapist promised me. I am still getting a referral to a hand specialist, but it was such a neat experience and like nothing I have experienced at a doctor's. It did not trip my sensory wires and made me think of Colin Clive in Mad Love (1935).

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Jun. 3rd, 2025 04:48 pm
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The house next door is currently unoccupied, awaiting its new owners. The athletic 10 year old twins across the street have just figured out that they can now play on the very enticing driveway-- a smooth curving slope. It's fun to watch! (Dead end street so quite safe, with just a bit of caution.)

I am returned!

Jun. 3rd, 2025 12:24 pm
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I have successfully navigated my gorge adventure, just a bit more sunburned than I expected. I was dumb and should have sunscreened / worn my dorky UV-rated clothes more.
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It improves my mood considerably that I can listen to the Drive's "Jerkin'" (1977) because not only is the song itself a brilliant example of stupid rock, the band existed for a grand total of seven months during which it managed to release one un-radio-playable single, manufacture a scandal, blow an important gig, and implode in a puff of 20/20 hindsight, which sounds like a none more punk biography to me. Any myriad of such one-not-exactly-hit wonders would have bubbled through any scene with a critical exposure to Patti Smith or the Sex Pistols—in this case it was Dundee's—but this one left enough traces that I can, thanks to one of the better functions of the internet, experience all six and a half minutes of their total musical record and read for myself their history according to their lead singer, who really should feel proud that so much pleasure can be transferred through a song about masturbation. It has a two-guitar solo! DIY that slide! The persistence of thrown-at-the-wall weirdness makes me feel better about the world. On that note, because I had recent occasion to, as it were, drag it out, Lou Rand Hogan's The Gay Cookbook (1965).
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All praise to the makers of Bar Keepers Friend, which enabled me and [personal profile] rushthatspeaks to de-blue the shower tonight after he had re-dyed his hair. It took us four tries to find a restaurant that wasn't dark Mondays, but eventually El Vaquero came through with, in my case, a spectacularly stuffed burrito de lengua which did its best to be bigger than my head. I am not at the top of my health and feeling more than a little disintegrated about current events. Have a picture from a window of MIT.

Trip preparation

Jun. 2nd, 2025 10:18 pm
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Got up this morning around 11:30, had breakfast and coffee, then showered and dressed and went to pick up my laundry.

Again, it was light enough that I didn't bring the cart, and I just carried it home and put it in the bedroom. Then I put in a Shipt order.

Then while I was waiting for the order to come, I started packing for my trip. I used my duffle bag, as it's good for a carry on luggage and easy to carry. I packed all my clothes that I'm bringing. It won't be enough, I'll have to do laundry while I'm there, but [personal profile] mashfanficchick sings the praises of Dani's washer/dryer combo. Put the dirty clothes in, and they come out clean and dry.

So just when I was finishing up the clothing packing, the Shipt order came so I put that away, and then packed my meds.

Then I puttered around aimlessly, though I did do one important thing, I switched the remaining storage unit, of Oldest Brother's things, onto my credit card, and paid it for the month. Then I texted the Kid to discuss it. We will try to get it cleaned out by the end of this month. One way or another. Sadly there is little in there to save.

I emptied out the extraneous stuff from my computer bag, preparatory to using it as a purse on my trip.

I also ordered a belated birthday present for the Kid, two skeins of very nice yarn.

I spent most of the rest of the afternoon just puttering, though I did take time out to eat.

Then at 7:00 I Teamed the FWiB, or 7:15 to be more precise. We talked for about an hour and a half, and then I had dinner and went and lay down. Played solitaire and read, and at 10 it was pet feeding time.

I fed the pets, and then got out the timer I bought several years ago and attempted to set it up to control the turtle tank light. I think I did it wrong though because it should have turned off by now, and hasn't. I will investigate after I finish writing.

Gratitude List:

1. The FWiB.

2. Clean laundry.

3. Packed to go.

4. My pets.

5. Nice warm day.

6. Shipt.

Edited to add: The light just turned off! I think I did it right!

one must imagine Sisyphus happy

Jun. 2nd, 2025 09:35 pm
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Workmen arrived at 9:00 this morning to install three (3) doors and finish off the framing of one (1) window. Ostensibly less than a day of work for two people.

Lords, ladies, and gentlethems, it is now 9:30 PM and they just left and only one door and the window are finished. Original Contractor did something funky with the framing of the doorways and nothing is squared properly and so they have to buy some more materials and come back later in the week to finish fixing it.

There was shouting. In Polish I think. They are very clearly not impressed with Original Contractor.

Any vindication I might have felt that Original Contractor was in fact just making it up as he went along is somewhat overshadowed that I have to pay tradie's rates for a second day of work.

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Jun. 2nd, 2025 09:05 pm
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Name: Ashley (she/her - transfemme)

Age: 36



I mostly post about: So I'm 2 years into my transition as a female, I'm pretty much woman except I can't land a job so have no friends, dates, nothing. I'm EXTREMELY stressed. I try to game to escape, but my mom purposely stresses me out while I do that, I'm in hell. I go outside only when I have to now, 'cause people treat me like shit. So my posts are mostly musings and psychological bs. You can see the shit I put up with on the first on my first page.



My hobbies are: Listening to y2k music, sometimes 90s music, playing video games, indie/y2k/multiplayer/remakes&sequals, and working out.



My fandoms are: Final Fantasy. I've played them all, though I haven't beaten every one. Will be getting more into Zelda when I get a Switch 2. The Last of Us (TV) and I've played the games. Gay shit in general.



I'm looking to meet people who: Nerds who don't get butthurt or threatened about me.



My posting schedule tends to be: Whenever the mood strikes.



When I add people, my dealbreakers are: Well, the exclusionary workaholic tools already aren't adding me, so I don't have to worry about anyone!



Before adding me, you should know: If you stop commenting after 2 weeks, as most journalers do, I will remove you so let's skip the unnecessary steps and just not add me if you're gonna do that, okay?

Fourth Street Schedule

Jun. 2nd, 2025 07:09 pm
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Fear, Loathing, and Transcendence in the Great American Road Trip. Friday, June 13, 4:00. Beth Cato, Marissa Lingen, Alec Marsh, Arkady Martine, Reuben Poling. Whether we like it or not, we are currently in the United States of America. The particular fantastic resonance of this country, and the continent it occupies, is often evoked by that great American literary tradition – the road novel. There’s an undeniable magic to traversing this huge landmass, with all its relatively open spaces. The brutal process of colonization that produced this country, and the unusually truncated history delineated by that process, add texture and horror to the magic of the open road.

Books like Max Gladstone’s Last Exit or Rebecca Roanhorse’s Trail of Lightning take the American road novel a step or ten further into the fantastic, including unflinching consideration of the bones beneath the highway. What other possibilities can fantasists encounter out on the interstate, and what can they throw in the trunk to bring along into other worlds than these?

I'm Only Happy When It Rains. Saturday, June 14, 2:00. Elizabeth Bear, Anthony W. Eichenlaub, Marissa Lingen, Arkady Martine, Caroline Stevermer. The weather’s weirder lately. Or at least out here in the regular world it is – but the weather’s been weird in fantasy for a long time now. Sometimes it tries to kill you (like in McCaffery’s Pern novels or Elizabeth Bear’s The Steles of the Sky), sometimes it makes you really miserable and then it tries to kill you (CJ Cherryh’s 40,000 in Gehenna, Bruce Sterling’s Heavy Weather), and sometimes you try to kill it and that doesn’t go so well (every story about terraforming or cloud seeding or propitiating the weather gods for mercy). Is the weather really just an excuse for an author’s indulgence in pathetic fallacy? Or can the environment become a live actor in fantasy storytelling?

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