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moon_custafer ([personal profile] moon_custafer) wrote2025-11-22 04:09 pm
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Saturday Links Round-Up

Not much to report here personally. I think someone else in our neighbourhood must’ve watched Frankenstein (2025)

NPR’s latest Tiny Desk Concert: Robert Plant and Saving Grace. If you enjoy folk-type music, this might be for you.

Speaking of music legends who’ve still got it: Gonzo, singing “I’m Going to Go Back There Someday.”

Twelfth Night on Great Performances, streaming till NYE 2025. Peter Dinklage really understands the “cross-gartered in yellow stockings” assignment.
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𝔅𝔢𝔱𝔰𝔶 ([personal profile] weedpizza) wrote2025-11-14 01:22 pm

The Friday Five for November 14, 2025

Questions from [community profile] thefridayfive.

1. What's one of the nicest things a friend has ever done for you?
My sister took me to see our favorite band (Pulp)!

2. What's one of the nicest things a stranger has ever done for you?
Bought me cigarettes when I was short on money.

3. What is a trait in another person that you instantly admire, and that draws you to them?
Authenticity.

4. What is a trait in another person that instantly repels you, and prevents you from forming a close relationship with them?
Vanity.

5. Time to vent: tell us about something rotten someone has done to you.
I'm not in the mood to vent, but there's been plenty!
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FFA DW Post #2388 - Cocaine in Maine goes mainly to the brain?

 
Cocaine in Maine makes the writing go insane.

Cocaine in Maine comes mainly out the Drain.

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sovay ([personal profile] sovay) wrote2025-11-21 09:48 pm

Everybody knows the world's gone wrong

My mother referred earlier this evening to the state of my health as farshlimmert, which definitely sounds classier than my saying it's gone down the tubes. On the other hand, I do not apparently have TB, so we can hold off on the consumptive poet jokes a little while longer yet.

As a reworking of Stevenson, Dr. Jekyll and Sister Hyde (1971) is trashtacular even beyond the whipsawing of its trans reading when it mixes the novella's Gothic horrors with historical ones—scrunching about six decades in the penny-dreadful process of folding in not only the Whitechapel murders but Burke and Hare, even without throwing in an allusion to Sweeney Todd or a street singer straight out of Val Lewton—but it dovetailed unexpectedly well with an article sent me by [personal profile] selkie about the obtrusiveness of AI-generation in art because it contains an in-camera effect so good that I stopped the film to gush about it to [personal profile] spatch. It's the emergence of the so-called Mrs. Hyde. One-shot, Jekyll wrenched with the effects of his absinthe-green potion buries his face in his hands, slowly straightens to perceive, in the cheval glass where a moment ago he was convulsing, a woman as severely dark-haired, night-pale and shocked as himself, who she is. It's not a trick of double exposures or duplicate sets or dissolves. While the camera tightly pivots behind the hunched protagonist, it looks as though a slight adjustment to the angle of the mirror allows an otherwise offscreen Martine Beswick to reflect beyond the identically dressed shoulder of Ralph Bates, their breath heaving in time, their hands slowly unmasking their shared face. It's very simple and uncannily effective. In some ways I find it more impressive than the red-filter transformation of Fredric March in the 1931 Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde because it's all sightlines. He's never out of shot and she's suddenly in it. Especially to an eye distracted from consideration of the sets or the cinematography by the switch of actors in the glass, it looks impossible. And someone had to think of it, or at least translate it from a stage illusion. It has never broken a film for me to see how a practical effect is done, which feels different from the suspicion of how much of an image is AI-slopped.

The almost talking blues whose first two lines I missed tonight on WERS turned out to be Lucinda Williams' "The World's Gone Wrong" (2025).

P.S. And a random thirty seconds of Clive Francis mixed in with the bleak London ultraviolence of Villain (1971), why not?
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the_siobhan ([personal profile] the_siobhan) wrote2025-11-21 11:32 pm

in the middle of our street

Did not hear from engineer today. Fingers crossed for next week.

Visiting dad got put off until tomorrow so that meant I got to spend some more time sorting out the basement bathroom. I got the caulking done and... boy, I am not good at that. I was thinking if I got the hang of it I would also add some to the kitchen tiles where the contractor missed it but... no. I have gained many new skills during this phase of dealing with the house, but this is definitely not one of them. It looks like I put it on drunk.

Big stack o' paper has been sorted out and divided into things I am keeping for tax purposes, things I am keeping for insurance purposes, things I am keeping for grant purposes, and things I just threw onto the stack because I didn't know what else to do with it. I'll do the actual scanning and uploading on erm, maybe Sunday.

I also spent some time going through my credit card statements last night looking for proof I had paid a couple of bills and in the process I discovered that I have some charges I don't recognize. They're for small amounts which is why I didn't spot them earlier, but there are a bunch of them. Two different small companies in the US and when I looked at their websites they use the exact same templates. Everything is identical except for the text and the photos. I sent one of them a 'hey, who are you' email and got an immediate auto-response saying if I was disputing a charge I should list all my email addresses and my credit card number so they can look it up.

(Also? One of the websites sold makeup. I think the last time I wore makeup was 2010.)

So. That card got cancelled. I put in a fraud claim and hopefully I get the money back.

***

Physio is going really really well. I've stopped using the cane for short walks and so far my foot is holding up great. I cannot tell you how fantastic it is to be able to move normally again, even if just for short distances.

Every time I go to the physiotherapist we go over the exercises I'm doing and she adds a slight modification that makes it slightly more difficult and apparently my body really likes being challenged because it's making a huge difference. And then she spends 20 minutes doing what she calls "deep tissue work" which is code for finding every single sensitive spot in my foot and lower calf and using it as a platform to balance her entire body weight on her elbow.

Fuckit, if it's working, I'll take it.

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silver_chipmunk ([personal profile] silver_chipmunk) wrote2025-11-21 11:33 pm

Busy Friday

Got up at 10:00 and had a therapy session, which was good. Then breakfast and coffee. Called [personal profile] mashfanficchick and agreed to meet on the bus heading to BJs.

So I showered and dressed, and waited at the bus stop til ze said zer bus was turning the corner, and then I got on and we met up.

Got to the shopping center, and decided on the spur of the moment to have lunch at Buffalo Wild Wings. I had the lunch special three chicken pieces, and onion rings, and lemonade.

Then we went to Target so zee could use their power outlet to charge zer phone for a bit.

Then we stopped in T J Max, where I bought a new pair of winter shoes, and some dates.

Dani called [personal profile] mashfanficchick while we were checking out, and they talked for awhile before we went into BJs.

By then it was getting late if I wanted to make my meeting in the Bronx so we hurried through, and ze took my shoes and dates with zer purchases so I wouldn't have to carry them to the Bronx. Then we took the 20 bus and I got off to transfer to the 44. The stop where I got off did not have a transfer to the 44. I eventually walked back to Union Street and got on the44 there.

Got to my meeting just on time, no pizza because of the heavy Buffalo Wild Wings lunch. And M dd not get donuts tonight, apparently Dunkin' Donuts was sold out of everything, so I saved calories there. The meeting was small but good.

M drove me to the bus stop, and I got home relatively quickly. Teamed the FWiB, which was nice as always.

Fed the pets and here I am.

Gratitude List:

1. The FWiB.

2. The Kid, texted today.

3. Nice day out.

4. New winter shoes.

5. My meeting and the people there.

6. Christie seems better.
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purplecat ([personal profile] purplecat) wrote2025-11-21 06:57 pm

Random Roman Remains


The remains of Hadrian's Wall on the right snake over a rise down and then up over the next rise.  The remains of a square building abut the wall close to.
A milecastle on Hadian's Wall
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Siderea ([personal profile] siderea) wrote2025-11-21 03:09 am
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Getting a head of things [gastronomy]

The Bostoniensis household's last grocery order included some cucumbers but the delivery service mystifyingly substituted for them a head of cabbage. They were very apologetic when Mr B called to complain, and refunded us the price of the cabbage, so now it's a free cabbage. But it's still here taking up a remarkably large volume of space in our fridge, what with the spherical thing, and it's a week before Thanksgiving.

Cooking a cabbage was not on our plans for this week. But throwing out a perfectly good cabbage seems sad. And I have been complaining about not getting enough veggies to eat. So.

Anybody have a very delicious recipe for cabbage that conforms to the following parameters?:

• Cooked. No raw cabbage.

• Really, really low effort. I am resigned to having to chop the cabbage itself, but maybe minimal other chopping of other veggies or meats. Something where the actual cooking isn't too fussy.

• Not haluski. We love haluski. We have most of the ingredients for haluski. We do not have the time or energy for taking on a project like haluski.

• Not stuffed cabbage. The kind with ground beef and tomato sauce. Neither of us likes it. Possibly because we don't like the taste of cabbage in tomato sauce.

• Not corned beef and cabbage. We love corned beef and cabbage but omg have you seen the price of brisket.

• Relately, maybe no stewing or slow cooking? The smell of slow cooking the corned beef and cabbage is dire, and we don't want to have to flush air we paid to heat. Maybe it would be okay if more heavily seasoned.

• Gotta mostly be cabbage. We have a lot of cabbage to get through.

We like spicy, though it's not required; no cilantro, and probably no coconut. Main dish or side, with meat or without.

Edit: Okay, maybe we'll just buy more cabbages. I am very excited by this harvest of recipes.
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silver_chipmunk ([personal profile] silver_chipmunk) wrote2025-11-21 12:48 am

Messed up day that turned out all right

It did it again!!! A LONG post eaten by the computer!!!

I shall summarize.

I thought I was supposed to go to a retiree meeting today at the Adam Clayton Powell State Building. After getting up at 6:45 and taking a bus and two subways to get there, and almost taking the wrong subway from Times Square, I got there and found that the meeting was two days ago. I don't know how I did that.

Was supposed to meet [Bad username or unknown identity: mashfanficchick"] at Bryant Park at 1:00, so I killed time in Grand Central, and the main branch of the NY Public library (the one with the lions) and the Mid-Manhattan library.

Then [personal profile] mashfanficchick called me and said ze couldn't make it because ze had injured zer foot somehow. So I headed there. Got a text from Chris, who I had told I would be in the city, saying he was free after 7:00. I didn't want to spend 6 more hours killing time alone, and had already said I was heading to [personal profile] mashfanficchick so I said my plans had unfortunately changed and we could get together after Thanksgivng.

Had trouble with the E train, but got to Kew Gardens. Had a peppermint mocha latte in Dunkin' Donuts while ze called our lunch order in to a deli. I picked it up and went to zeer place.

Spent the day hanging out and doing some cleaning. Teamed the FWiB from my phone. Called Middle Brother, he had a Thanksgiving party today at someone's house and had fun.

Had sushi for dinner, made plans for tomorrow, Ubered home.

And if you think this post is long, you should have seen the one the damn computer ate.

Gratitude List:

1. The FWiB.

2. Sushi dinner.

3. Fun day in Manhattan.

4. Heard from Chris.

5. Middle Brother had a good day.

6. Christie seems better, more active.
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wychwood ([personal profile] wychwood) wrote2025-11-20 09:21 pm

october booklog

Pro-tip: reading two books called "The Seven [nouns] of Evelyn [surname]" at the same time is a bad idea and will lead to confusion.

The Commonweal books 2-5 - Graydon Saunders ) A very satisfying series; I look forward to the next book when it comes out!


114. A Desolation Called Peace - Arkady Martine ) I loved the first book, but found this one a slog for slightly inexplicable reasons.


115. The Trials of Life - David Attenborough ) Entertaining as ever.


117. Nettle and Bone - T Kingfisher ) I don't know if it's me or Kingfisher who has changed, but I don't enjoy these as much as I did. This is fine! But I used to find her books better than fine.


120. The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo - Taylor Jenkins Reid ) This was so much better than I had anticipated; I'm definitely looking out for her Fleetwood Mac book now.


121. DallerGut Dream Department Store - Miye Lee ) I enjoyed it enough that I kept reading, but I was glad it wasn't longer.


122. The Very Secret Society of Irregular Witches - Sangu Mandanna ) This was very fluffy and pleasant, but had just enough depth that I enjoyed it instead of getting annoyed.


123. Rivers of London: Deadly Ever After - Ben Aaronovitch, Celeste Bronfman, Andrew Cartmel, Jose Maria Beroy, and Jordi Escuin Llorach ) Not especially memorable, but fun enough.


124. The Village Library Demon-Hunting Society - CM Waggoner ) I really enjoyed this, and the way it's messing around with genre; I think I'd like to re-read it, and see how it feels when I know where it's going.


125. The Seven Deaths of Evelyn Hardcastle - Stuart Turton ) I suppose this is cleverly done, but it was all so loathsome I really had to drag myself through it, and by the time we found out all the answers I didn't even really care.


126. Translation State - Ann Leckie ) I liked this more on re-read, and I liked it quite a bit the first time! Just so many nice people doing their best, and complicated politics, and it's so good.


127. England - John Lewis-Stempel ) A generally solid nature writer; I don't know if I'll read more by him, but I did enjoy the English focus.


128. Leviathan Wakes - James SA Corey ) Much less space-opera-y than I had osmosed, but this was pretty gripping, and I'll definitely be reading the next book.


129. The Feud in the Chalet School - Elinor M Brent-Dyer ) this is solid as ever.


130. Phonogram vol 1: Rue Britannia - Kieron Gillen and Jamie McKelvie ) This is clearly well done, despite my somewhat mixed feelings; I feel like it's probably a must-read for actual Britpop fans, but even outside that there's still something good in there.


131. Testimony of Mute Things - Lois McMaster Bujold ) If you like this series, you'll enjoy this; I did. And it was nice to see baby Penric again!


132. Deeds of Youth - Elizabeth Moon ) I enjoy this world, and the stories she tells in it, but ultimately I think I mostly want more about the specific characters I already know and love! But I enjoyed these anyway.


133. Batgirls: One Way or Another - Becky Cloonan, Michael W Conrad, Jorge Corona, and Sarah Stern ) I have less patience for the actual High Stakes Superheroing than I used to, but I loved watching the three Batgirls working together. Delightful.


134. Stress in the Workplace - Howard Edwards ) The failure mode of satire is dull, as this book demonstrates capably.
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sunnymodffa ([personal profile] sunnymodffa) wrote in [community profile] fail_fandomanon2025-11-21 08:17 am

FFA DW Post #2387 - And thus began the Bunny Targaryen dynasty: Flayrah and Blood!

 
Watership Down was so inaccurate to rabbits.
Nobody even got castrated for annoying a female rabbit or anything.

Rabbit!Accurate General Woundwort can run a dictatorship full of castrati if she wants.

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mellowtigger ([personal profile] mellowtigger) wrote2025-11-20 10:58 am
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GiveToTheMax day 2025 in Minnesota

It's that time of year again. Today is Minnesota's annual virtue signaling spectacle. We call it "Give To The Max" day. For recurring visitors like me, their website offers a convenient "Add previously supported causes to your cart" option with a "Give Again" button. Very convenient! Even without it, their search engine makes it easy to find organizations and causes of interest to you.

See the table of groups I'm supporting in 2025...

Help within my small very local portion of the warzone
Youth Farm MNI've mentioned them before, but for some reason they are prohibited this year from receiving funds. Did they lose their non-profit status or fail to file a form? I'm keeping them here as a reminder for next year, though.
Good in the HoodI've mentioned them before too
Pillsbury United CommunitiesThey fund local groups, including My North News
Jordan Area Community Councilmy local neighborhood of north Minneapolis
Nonviolent Peaceforce.orgThey help around the globe... and here in north Minneapolis
Help the nearby people and their environment
Autism Society of MNhelp autistics in MN
Fraser MNThey help people with disabilities with developing self-care life skills
OutFront MNhelp queer folk in MN
Quatrefoil Librarypreserve queer history in a library
Migizihelp native people in MN
Avenues For Youthhelp youth in the local community
Minnesota Renewable Energy Societyencourage MN to migrate to renewable energy
Metro Bloomsencourage MN to migrate from grass yards to native prairie
MN350encourage MN to reduce CO2 to 350ppm
Animal Humane Societyhelp domesticated animals when their former owners cannot
Repoweredprovides training, employment, and tech to local people, formerly known as Tech Dump
Sources of truth in a culture of lies and misdirections
Unicorn RiotThey show on-the-ground interviews with locals
Minnesota Public Radiolocal non-commercialized news
My North News.orgJordan neighborhood and Minneapolis city news
Pioneer PBSMN stories for broader distribution
Sources of justice in a culture of authoritarianism
Legal Rights CenterThe organization that agreed to represent me if needed when I was jailed for nonviolent protest.
ACLU of MinnesotaAn organization that helps many people fighting government overreach.

I'll do a separate giving spree after a few months, focusing on news sources and technology projects. With costs spread throughout the year, it'll make it "hurt" less financially for a given month. For this event, I'm focusing more on local support and registered charity causes. I gave a total of $1,529.09 this time, which is significantly more than usual. That total includes a donation to GiveMN itself to cover financial processing (so charities get the full amount I sent to them) and keeping the website functioning. I added more causes this year. I also added more money than usual for those organizations providing direct food and shelter, since I expect the need to soar during the next year.

I know other places offer similar mass donation drives. At my employer in Pennsylvania, they're doing it right now for the holiday season too. I very much appreciate this very Minnesota way of making it easy to do good things, which is what every society should strive to achieve with its infrastructure and politics.

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shewhomust ([personal profile] shewhomust) wrote2025-11-20 12:52 pm
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Chilly mornings

We woke yesterday to snow covering the landscape, and ate breakfast while more was falling. After that the day became brighter, which means colder. Cars passing up and down the hill cleared tracks in the roadway, but not enough to tempt me to walk down to the pub. [personal profile] durham_rambler was reluctant to take the car, but was eventually persuaded - and we had a triumphant night at the quiz, winning both the quiz itself and the beer round, and startling the quizmaster into the bargain (result! triple result!).

After all this excitement, we slept late this morning, and before we were up and dressed the heating in the bedroom had gone off. It is still cold, and the snow is still there.

I'm not going anywhere today.
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silver_chipmunk ([personal profile] silver_chipmunk) wrote2025-11-19 10:20 pm

Flushing again

Got up this morning around 10:00, and got a notice that I had two more prescriptions available at Duane Reade. I had breakfast and coffee, and thought about what to do. I decided to take a shower and wash my hair, and then go and pick up the meds.

I also looked up the very expensive e-spinner the Kid wants for Christmas and ordered it, which leaves me a bit short til I get paid again.

Then I called Middle Brother's group home and set it up to bring him here for Thanksgiving overnight. The usual setup, they bring him to Hicksville and I meet him there, then come back here on the 26th. And the reverse on Thanksgiving, after we eat I take him to Hicksville by the train and they meet us there.

So I got that set up and then headed to Flushing and Duane Reade. I accomplished the whole thing in a little over a half hour, so no big deal.

After that I pretty much just puttered online for the rest of the afternoon. Sadly gaming was cancelled for today, and next week.

At 7:00 I Teamed the FWiB, since I didn't need to get off at 8:00 we talked til almost 9:00, though we started a bit late. The Kid called a little after 8:30, at my request, and we had a quick talk about her boyfriend's Christmas present.

After that I had dinner, another of the mushroom pasta bowls. Then I went to the bedroom, and called [personal profile] mashfanficchick. We are meeting in Manhattan tomorrow, I have a retiree union meeting in the morning, then we'll meet at Bryant Park and do the market there.

I am worried about Christie. She isn't eating and seems very lethargic. It may be the time of year, but I worry she's 30 years old this year, and she's getting old.

Gratitude List:

1. The FWiB.

2. Got my meds.

3. Talked to the Kid.

4. Made Thanksgiving plans for Middle Brother.

5. Clean hair.

6. Plans for tomorrow.
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cahn ([personal profile] cahn) wrote2025-11-19 01:03 pm

Hilo: The Boy Who Crashed to Earth (Winick)

Hilo: The Boy Who Crashed to Earth (and five sequels); Gina -- The Girl Who Broke the World (and two sequels)

Outstanding! (As Hilo would say.) I do not know how with two children I have hitherto been unaware of the Hilo graphic novels, but indeed I did not know about them at all until a friend who was cleaning out her older kids' book collection offered them to A., and then I forgot about them until A. told me I needed to read them.

I don't know, y'all, these are graphic novels aimed towards the Dog Man demographic, I guess 8-year-old kids or so? they are definitely written on an 8-year-old level (complete with the old "let's erase everyone's memory" trick used a couple of times)... and somehow they were also a shot straight at my id. Maybe it's that I was getting over a cold when I read them and so my mental state was that of an 8-year-old. Or that the author was apparently influenced by Calvin and Hobbes and that went into some deep places in my brain. But I plowed through all 6 of the first set of books, and 3 of the next set, without being very aware that I was not absolutely the target audience. And indeed, what it shares so poignantly with C&H is that sense of deep joy. Hilo's very being just emanates joy. He has other kinds of emotions, too, but joy is the one that just radiates from the page.

But also all the characters are The Best and I have a lot of feelings about them! DJ and his large family that is so busy that they don't sit down to eat, but always have room for a few more, why not? Lisa, my fave, the little sister who starts getting suspicious about all the suspicious things going on that the other family members are too busy to pay attention to! Gina who wants to do STEM-y things and not do cheerleading, and her cheerleading-crazy family! Hilo and the ones who make up Hilo's backstory! Polly, who shows up in the second book and basically steals every scene!

The other thing about these books is that they are so wildly inventive. I read book one and thought, wow, that was good, but there's no way the author can pull that off for more than one book. Nope, he pulls it off for the five more in the series. It reminded me a little of how in The Good Place, I thought I knew what was coming in the second season, and then everything I thought was going to happen in the entire season happened in one episode. Loved these books madly, loved all the crazy hijinks madly, loved the deep compassion for all the characters madly.

The Gina books slow down a bit; they are still wildly inventive and with the same awesome characters, but by the nature of the series they have to be a tiny bit more serious, and so the set doesn't have quite the same exuberance that made me love the first six Hilo books so very much (which also do get more serious as they go along, but since it's all part of the same arc it's a little more gradual). But they are still great.


Spoilers
IZZY. Izzy was absolutely my favorite, no one will be surprised to hear. ALL THE PIECES FIT. I legit cried over her.


It's interesting -- some books I have a lot to say about, and I don't have very much to say about these; they're not the kind of books that I feel the need to chew over. (And, I mean. They're written for 8-year-olds.) They're just so joyous that I loved them very much.

HAZZAH!
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queen_ypolita ([personal profile] queen_ypolita) wrote2025-11-19 05:34 pm
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Wednesday reading

Finished since the last reading post
The Lost Abbot, with a suitably large and confusing number of deaths during Matthew and friends' stay in Peterborough looking for the abbot who seems to have disappeared.

Also finished The End of Innocence. It was good, a mix of personal stories interspersed with the more factual narrative. With it being a book originally published in the mid-1990s and reprinted in 2021, as a reader you have a different point of view than the first readers at the time.

Currently reading
In the middle of The Instrumentalist Harriet Constable, which I'm really enjoying. And have just about made a start on The Alignment Problem by Brian Christian

Reading next
Not sure
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Siderea ([personal profile] siderea) wrote2025-11-19 05:52 am
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Choosing Health Insurance: Preventive Care [US, healthcare, Patreon]

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Hey, Americans and other people stuck in the American healthcare system. It's open enrollment on the state exchanges, and possibly through your employer, so I wanted to give you a little heads up about preventive care and shopping for a health insurance plan.

I've noticed from time to time various health insurance companies advertising themselves to consumers by boasting that their health plans focus on covering preventive care. Maybe they lay a spiel on you about how they believe in keeping you healthy rather than trying to fix problems after they happen. Maybe they point out in big letters "PREVENTIVE CARE 100% FREE" or "NO CO-PAYS FOR PREVENTIVE CARE".

When you come across a health insurance product advertised this way, promoted for its coverage of preventive health, I propose you should think of that as a bad thing.

Why? Do I think preventive medicine is a bad thing? Yes, actually, but that's a topic for another post. For purposes of this post, no, preventive medicine is great.

It's just that it's illegal for them not to cover preventive care 100% with no copays or other cost-sharing.

Yeah, thanks to the Obamacare law, the ACA, it's literally illegal for a health plan to be sold on the exchanges if it doesn't cover preventive care 100% with no cost-sharing, and while there are rare exceptions, it's also basically illegal for an employer to offer a health plan that doesn't cover preventive care.

They can't not, and neither can any of their competitors.

So any health plan that's bragging on covering preventive care?.... Read more [2,270 words] )

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silver_chipmunk ([personal profile] silver_chipmunk) wrote2025-11-18 10:29 pm

Still snuffily

But feeling well enough to be up and about.

I got up accidentally at 9:00 because I forgot to change the alarm from Saturday. So I turned it off and went back to sleep and got up at 11:00. I had breakfast and coffee, and called [personal profile] mashfanficchick to see if anything was doing today. It wasn't, so I showered, dressed, and went out to Flushing to pick up my prescription, and get Christmas cards.

I went to Duane Reade, taking the 44 bus, and filled the prescription. Then I looked for boxed Christmas cards. They had a very small selection of very expensive ones, so I decided to look elsewhere.

I went to Jemboro, but they didn't have any, so I decided to go to Target. I walked down to the Skyview Mall and went to Target, looked through all their Christmas stuff and found no boxed cards. I am very surprised at that.

So on the way out I stopped in Marshalls, and there I found a small selection of boxed cards, not terribly expensive, and found two boxes, 15 cards each, of a design I like. So I got those.

While waiting on line I found a small present for someone too, so that's good.

Sadly, I kept seeing things that [personal profile] mashfanficchick's mother would have liked. Also a few things that Oldest Brother would have gotten a laugh out of. *sigh*

Anyway, I brought the stuff and walked back to the bus stop and came home.

I am happy to say, btw, that for the past day, there has been heat in the building, almost too much. I am quite cozy and warm.

So I had a little lunch, yogurt and cheese, and I puttered around until 7:00. Then I Teamed the FWiB.

We talked til it was time for my meeting, and then I did that. It was small, but good.

Then when I got off I had a text message from [personal profile] mashfanficchick to give zer a call, so I did and we discussed the weekend, and Thursday.

I had dinner, and went to the bedroom to finish reading Amphegorey.

Gratitude List:

1. The FWiB.

2. Got holiday cards. (they are non-religious so I can use them for everyone)

3. Went through the presents I have already for people and I have more than I thought.

4. My meetings and the people there.

5. Warm apartment.

6. Cold is better.