She started the Earth-Minbari war. Zen hippy or not, this woman is not all sweetness and light, no matter how much John may want to believe it. Lennier is prepared to take the dark with the light, moreoever Delenn can trust him in a way she can't trust her husband. I liked the J/D relationship, but I think Delenn/Lennier would have been yummy and angsty and oooh.