I always accused out teenage romance music of making the divorce rate climb. The music of the 1950's and 1960's was a mess of one-and-only, of codependency, of jealousy and revenge. It's a shock that any marriages have survived. It's astonishing that anyone has managed to successfully do poly in the face of the brainwashing. That last is something that the teenage-romance music credo would have found alien.